while..

Sometimes i wonder the meaning of some words that are mostly used
in every sentence but is understood very little. Words with have meaning deeper than what people actually mean.
I have been staring at a word for a long now, and i think it has a meaning that most of us find hard to accept and understand
while:
As of dictionary this word means two things
1.a period of time
2.at the same time or meanwhile.
I understand how crazy it sounds looking up at these words and trying to figure out something else when the meaning is so clear.
But i have a different style of looking at words. Some words say a lot more than what they mean.
While I was writing, she finished of all the chores of the house.
I look at this sentence like when we are doing something, we can not avoid that the time allotted to the writing is used by other person for something else which seems productive to her.
Its like we can’t do everything. We cant take care of everything. Something or the other is bound to be left out.
And we don’t realize it. We never do. The time we allot to sleep, some people allot to something they find more productive than sleeping.
And i think that’s what makes us reach great heights in life.
It makes me question myself every minute, if what i am doing right now is the most productive i can be?Do I have more potentiality than this?
This word even teaches me that everyone has their own story that fits them. Everyone has their own perspective. It teaches me to look from others point of view before questioning them.
It makes me want to accept that no matter how hard we try some thing, some things are out of my hands, as to solve something you are dealing with, you need the other persons participation too, and if the person is not willing to change things than you do not have the power to change their minds because its not just about you. As soon as it involves other people in the story your participation in finding a solution to your problems become half,
the other half depends on the other person. While you think solving the problem is important that person might have something more productive to do.Even if the work doesn’t sound productive, you cant fight for it. It is always going to be while you do this,they do that. Catching everything is not possible you have only two hands.
So do something that’s productive to you and not others, because in the end its you who aspire to reach great heights , if you spend doing things what others find productive you might end up working for them so that they can reach their goals.
Even though your heart tells you that ;do it for yourself, because no one else will ever lift you up, you will end being their stepping stone.

And while i am writing this , many of you might be doing something else, but this what my best use of time looks like.