Loneliness is a phase ,and everyone goes through it, it certainly eats up people from within, but if you frame everything positively you can grow through it.
It’s better if loneliness makes you uncomfortable, if you start nurturing your sadness, it will make you hollow from inside.
It depends on you and I know how fcked up it can be. When we think about what we want in life, what is the first thing that comes to your mind?
My first thought is to be seen, to be appreciated for what I am before I decide doing good doesn’t change anything. Being ignored, not being important, not existing in anyone’s life kind of gives you chills right down the spine that if you die right now, no one would notice, nothing would change. The things we do to be recognized makes us so miserable, and we don’t even see it, because we think that’s how it is supposed to be.
But trust me thats not true, you do affect people, in ways you can’t imagine. But your goal shouldn’t be existing in someone else’s life, but in yours. We often tend to give so much of ourselves to other’s just to be remembered that we forget who we actually are. We forget what we like, most certainly because what we like isn’t something that’s going to change how people look at us or doesn’t invite attention.
Don’t get me wrong, we all need attention, it’s basic need, being constantly ignored is not what someone needs to grow.
All our lives we take decisions that would make us immortal not physically but in other people. We create monuments, acts, write, dance, sing, work at a job that does nothing but torture us, because that’s what it takes to exist? No it doesn’t. Existing is possible by accepting yourself, by accepting that you are not special, that your problems are not going to provide sympathy from this cold world. This world has seen everything, the worst problems, the worst failures, even the greatest success.
You know what it is still rare? It’s still rare to find someone who accepts that doing something for the peace of his mind doesn’t take away his existence certificate, it’s rare to find someone happy with themselves, it’s rare to find someone true to themselves.
Truth is we all fear loneliness, when it’s a lie. Even when you have no friends, no family, no one to appreciate your work , no reason to exist because you don’t change anything, you were given the opportunity to live as a human, u were provided with a voice inside you to stay with you. Not everyone is fortunate to live a life. It’s difficult, but getting a chance is very rarely appreciated. Doing things that affect your life, affects your existence and makes you appreciate yourself is what this world needs.